take off the blinders

boys can be complicated, but don't make excuses for them. just like you wouldn't except a 3 year old to magically wake up one day and be able to speak fluent latin, don't expect your boy to one day wake up and be a picture perfect man. if they court you sub.par, that's that. it doesn't get better once the woo-ing is over.
so don't stick with the one who makes you feel like dirt hoping one day he'll see you're a queen. don't ignore the one who is a bit goofy but thinks the sun rises and falls with you...the latter is much harder to find, and even harder to appreciate.