in my time off i had plenty of time to think about where i am in my life and what i really want out of it.
since i was a toddler my parents have always called me an old soul, so
it comes as no surprise that before i am a 25 i am already thinking of the things you can't compromise on.
the big things. and if i know what those are, why waste precious youth dabbling with things that don't have a chance of making the cut?
example: dating Bros when all i have ever wanted was a Pro.
while i have made other "non.negotiable" points on my list, this one hits home.
I have always been the Charlotte York, who cringes at the thought of
bar hopping and one night standing.
Why lie to myself and risk so much (disease, reputation, pregnancy, etc)?!
don't get me wrong.. there is nothing wrong with the lifestyle.. it just is not me.
this is just one example, but a prime one at that.
Furthermore.. this is not a stand to only date 30 year olds looking for a homemaker, but it is a stand to take serious things in life more seriously.
therefore i refuse to. therefore I am taking a few points from Patti Stanger, Charlotte York-Goldenblad, Courtney Kerr and Blair Waldorf.
No more wasting my time, energy, great outfits, and charm on anything un deserving if it.
life is short, and i vow to make it luxe.
