something i have learned: if you walk out of a room and are worried the friends you just left are talking about you; those people are not helping you to be the best, feel the best, and do the best.
as i have gotten older i have learned that those friendships you had to maintain because you saw eachother at lunch everyday, or sat next to them in english class, or kept just because you've hung out for years does not mean you have to go out of your way, feel uncomfortable, or worse off compromise your feelings and morals for someone who would not help you change a tire at 3am or be someone you would have your kids call "aunt" or "uncle."
with free time being a rarity more and more, who we spend time with becomes more important. i'm not saying send a notice of termination to someone you once shared so much with, but also don't let these people be anchors around you on your climb to success. being civil, polite, and gracious in public (and even in private) is a must, but that is about it.
just like we used to make cuts to our flip cup teams to ensure a win,
sometimes you need to make cuts to your social teams to ensure a future of health and happiness.
i am crying. with a cold. i sound disgusting. but i love you.
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